grub + travels + perspectives

Only a few find the way; some don't recognize it when they do; some don't ever want to.

‘Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?’
‘That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,’ said the Cat.
‘I don’t much care where - ’ said Alice.
Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,’ said the Cat.
’ - so long as I get somewhere,’ Alice added as an explanation.
‘Oh, you’re sure to do that,’ said the Cat, ‘if you only walk long enough.’
Losing yourself can make you eventually find yourself. I can attest to that. If you want something really bad, you will definitely make ends meet and make things happen. Going opposite the current is really tough at first--hearing other people's notions and generalizations and convincing them about your plans and trying so hard to prove it. But then you just snap out of it, being passive of being contained inside the four walls of other people's expectations, and just try to do your thing the best way you possibly can.

Dear Cheshire Cat, I am still walking but I can't say I already went far enough to get to that somewhere we all want to be. I made a choice on which what I want to go, I just heed that this walk pays off at this moment. I already made the first step, I hopped, I jogged,  I tripped and I ran but I'm not gonna stop here. (Sorry, I just talked to a fictional cat. Hehe.)

Life is so short to just sit back and let other people take the wheel for you. I know it's easier said than done but if you would just be open to the idea of taking risks, half of the dilemma has already been solved. 
“When you’re not on edge, you’re taking up too much space.”
— Cheshire Cat, Alice: Madness Returns.